A WOMAN’S BREAKING POINT (When Her Love Turns Cold)

A good woman will love you with all her heart, all her might and give you all of her soul.image

Then how cimagean a womaimagen who has shown you so much love, affection and loyalty suddenly turn cold?

I’ve seen it so many times.

Men frantically chasing after women who used to be theirs.

Begging for them to come back and show them even a fraction of the love they used to.

It doesn’t have to be this way.

This is the 30/80 rule that Tyler Perry talks about.

It’s when a man meets a woman who meets at least 80% of his expectations but then he takes her for granted.

They break up, she leaves him, and the next few women he date give him so much less – just 30% that he quickly realises he had a good thing going on before he let it go.

Unfortunately, it’s too late now.

What men don’t understand is that no matter imagehow much a woman loves you, or worships the ground you walk on, she has a breaking point.

She has a threshold of how much she can take or stomach and once you push her over that threshold. That’s it. It’s all over. She’s gone forever. The love turns stale. The thought of you will turn her stomach. She becomes numb. All the love she previously felt for you slowly but surely fades away.

The major thing that men do to cause this is taking a woman for granted. Believing that no matter how negative you are towards her, she will never leave you.

But there is a thin line between love and hate. Once a woman crosses this line there’s no turning back.

Even if Jesus Christ himself comes down, it won’t work.

The relationship will never be the same again.

And if you force it it will boomerang on you.

The best remedy for this?

Don’t let it happen in the first place.

Don’t let it get to that breaking point.

It’s a slow and gradual process and you can put a stop to it when you notice her drifting away from you on time.

When she stops making much effort anymore.

When she stops arguing with you.

When she stops trying to make her point.

When she is no longer physically interested in you.

When she just doesn’t care anymore.

That is the time for you to turn your self around and start appreciating her for who she is. Show her that you reciprocate all that she’s given you.

If you’re lucky, the love will gradually come back.

If not, then she’s hit that threshold already.

When you have a good thing, take care of it. Respect it. Don’t take her for granted.

Don’t let her go.

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