Ladies, Guard Your Heart!!!

It is a proven fact that clubs are growing empty and the churches are over-flowing.

I have said it times without number, “why pay N1000-N5000 to get into a club to meet girls, when you can get them on campuses, twitter, instagram and facebook for free?”

I don’t know about you but it shows a great cause for alarm. Most of the times, Ladies can’t even tell the difference between a sheep and a wolf! I can feel myself stepping on some toes here, but hey, I am just saying it as it is. We allow ourselves to get intoxicated with all the smooth raps and lyrics loaded with promises of endless possibilities. Wake up and smell the flame from the burning fire.

The heart is very fragile and should be guarded jealously because out of it comes the issues of life. Unfortunately, there are so many broken-hearted ladies out there. Now, let’s go through some steps which will help keep your heart from shattering every now and then that is if you follow them of course, so please stay with me.

Perception…

Guarding your heart is all about perception! Ladies, this is very important, if this is all you read. Read it and read it well.

How do you see yourself? If you were to place a value on yourself, how much will you set as the price? How much is your heart worth to you anyway? Do you see yourself as a slave or Queen? 

It is quite evident that people will only see you the way you see yourself. Girlfriend, you are a Jewel, so get yourself off the discount shelf, Please!

At the heart of mankind existence is the desire to be intimate and to be loved by another. Relationship is designed to meet the need for intimacy and love.